Linda Ikeji is a famous blogger who rakes in millions of
Naira every month from google and direct advertisers
from her blogspot. Her mansion in Banana Island,Ikoyi,a
choice area makes you go green with envy. It can make
your feet stumble and saliva dry up whenever you want
to talk to her. Kemi Ashefon, a journalist,Love blogger
and relationship counselor writes on how to marry Linda
Ikeji.
Here are 10 steps to make her want you:
STEP 1:
No matter how rich, famous or hard a woman looks, her
anatomy is female. If you are lucky to come across her
at any event, make her realise you are interested in her.
Lock eyes with her and release a smile from wherever
you are seated/standing. Say ‘hi’ once and don’t walk up
to her again.
STEP 2
Linda Ikeji says she is celibate. So, don’t be the guy who
touches at every opportunity. Carefully avoid any form
of physical contact with her. That way, she sees you as a
great guy. Then, take a step further and start showing
interest in what she does—how she manages her time
(blogging is taxing! Show interest in when and what she
eats) how she keeps fit despite the stress of staying
glued to the laptop/phone all day and what her hobbies
are. Women love men who show interest in what they do.
STEP 3:
Successful women also love guys who play hard-to-get.
Try it. Don’t overwhelm her with your love or romantic
gestures! Let her know you like her, wants to date her
but you have your own space. Don’t inundate Linda with
calls! She is too busy. Know her leisure time (Laura Ikeji
can help with that). Send a text message (just checking
on you, how are you faring? ..bla bla)
STEP 4
Please don’t ‘form.’ I mean, be yourself. Linda is a multi-
millionaire, so why should any man start boasting about
his ‘assets,’ when she had already acquired those things
24 months ago? If you are chanced to be at her Banana
Island home, admire, pay compliments but don’t start
showing off what you also have at home.
STEP 5
Let her know you want her for who she is—pretty, sexy,
enterprising, strong, a good fighter and one who doesn’t
hop in any man’s bed. Let her know you respect her, her
intellect and business sense. But never ask for ‘financial
help’. Even if you are poor, never ask her for money.
STEP 6
This is a very sensitive approach and you have to be
careful—Linda is smart! Don’t ask her to start telling you
about the men she had dated or who dumped her. Even
when she does without the asking, don’t turn it to a
research project! You also have your past. You should be
interested in winning her heart and making her forget
whatever hurt her.
STEP 7
Get close to her siblings. They know her more and when
they realise you are a great guy, they will help put in a
word for you… ‘Sis, don’t you think you should give
Mr.XX a chance?’ they will tell her during family time.
STEP 8
Be patient. Only patient men can end up walking a very
rich woman down the aisle. Don’t be troubled by the men
calling her for business transactions, or who pay a visit
to her office. Part of being a committed partner (which
Linda craves for) is letting sleeping dogs lie. Never mix
her business with your pleasure. Bloggers are addicted to
their phones/other devices and you must not see those
as rivals.
STEP 9
Be a shoulder to cry on. It’s a mean world and anyone
would do or say anything to hurt her—out of jealousy or
based on actions she took on her principles—but you
have to give her a soft-landing. Assure her it’s a phase, it
will pass away. “Don’t upset yourself over xxxx issues
(s)’ you must keep telling her.
STEP 10
Start sharing thoughts on how you want your future
home/family to look like. Borrow a cue from Mercy
Johnson’s husband, Odi. Mercy recalled how he
succeeded in walking her down the aisle:
“During a conversation he suggested that we took our
relationship to the next level. While we dated, I knew we
would get married because he became a part of my life
and we were very passionate about each other. One day,
we were at a wedding, Odi said, ‘I think our wedding cake
should have a tint of this colour.’ He must have forgotten
but it stuck and I am glad that he hinted.”
Credit: Kemi Ashefon
Naira every month from google and direct advertisers
from her blogspot. Her mansion in Banana Island,Ikoyi,a
choice area makes you go green with envy. It can make
your feet stumble and saliva dry up whenever you want
to talk to her. Kemi Ashefon, a journalist,Love blogger
and relationship counselor writes on how to marry Linda
Ikeji.
STEP 1:
No matter how rich, famous or hard a woman looks, her
anatomy is female. If you are lucky to come across her
at any event, make her realise you are interested in her.
Lock eyes with her and release a smile from wherever
you are seated/standing. Say ‘hi’ once and don’t walk up
to her again.
STEP 2
Linda Ikeji says she is celibate. So, don’t be the guy who
touches at every opportunity. Carefully avoid any form
of physical contact with her. That way, she sees you as a
great guy. Then, take a step further and start showing
interest in what she does—how she manages her time
(blogging is taxing! Show interest in when and what she
eats) how she keeps fit despite the stress of staying
glued to the laptop/phone all day and what her hobbies
are. Women love men who show interest in what they do.
STEP 3:
Successful women also love guys who play hard-to-get.
Try it. Don’t overwhelm her with your love or romantic
gestures! Let her know you like her, wants to date her
but you have your own space. Don’t inundate Linda with
calls! She is too busy. Know her leisure time (Laura Ikeji
can help with that). Send a text message (just checking
on you, how are you faring? ..bla bla)
STEP 4
Please don’t ‘form.’ I mean, be yourself. Linda is a multi-
millionaire, so why should any man start boasting about
his ‘assets,’ when she had already acquired those things
24 months ago? If you are chanced to be at her Banana
Island home, admire, pay compliments but don’t start
showing off what you also have at home.
STEP 5
Let her know you want her for who she is—pretty, sexy,
enterprising, strong, a good fighter and one who doesn’t
hop in any man’s bed. Let her know you respect her, her
intellect and business sense. But never ask for ‘financial
help’. Even if you are poor, never ask her for money.
STEP 6
This is a very sensitive approach and you have to be
careful—Linda is smart! Don’t ask her to start telling you
about the men she had dated or who dumped her. Even
when she does without the asking, don’t turn it to a
research project! You also have your past. You should be
interested in winning her heart and making her forget
whatever hurt her.
STEP 7
Get close to her siblings. They know her more and when
they realise you are a great guy, they will help put in a
word for you… ‘Sis, don’t you think you should give
Mr.XX a chance?’ they will tell her during family time.
STEP 8
Be patient. Only patient men can end up walking a very
rich woman down the aisle. Don’t be troubled by the men
calling her for business transactions, or who pay a visit
to her office. Part of being a committed partner (which
Linda craves for) is letting sleeping dogs lie. Never mix
her business with your pleasure. Bloggers are addicted to
their phones/other devices and you must not see those
as rivals.
STEP 9
Be a shoulder to cry on. It’s a mean world and anyone
would do or say anything to hurt her—out of jealousy or
based on actions she took on her principles—but you
have to give her a soft-landing. Assure her it’s a phase, it
will pass away. “Don’t upset yourself over xxxx issues
(s)’ you must keep telling her.
STEP 10
Start sharing thoughts on how you want your future
home/family to look like. Borrow a cue from Mercy
Johnson’s husband, Odi. Mercy recalled how he
succeeded in walking her down the aisle:
“During a conversation he suggested that we took our
relationship to the next level. While we dated, I knew we
would get married because he became a part of my life
and we were very passionate about each other. One day,
we were at a wedding, Odi said, ‘I think our wedding cake
should have a tint of this colour.’ He must have forgotten
but it stuck and I am glad that he hinted.”
Credit: Kemi Ashefon
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